No matter how many times it happens, the feeling of waking up alone in a country without a plan is something that never gets old. With no friends to suggest what to do, no appointments to keep, no job to show up for, nobody expecting your call (not even a cell phone with which to make calls from). Just you. And maybe a map. Or a book of train times. Nothing in the distant future that might cause you to make an informed decision as to your next destination. Nothing except choice. Choice, straight up. Double, with a twist.
There’s something totally inexplicably tasty about that.
The first morning I woke up after Sal left for London (on that flight I’d also bought a ticket for but didn’t take), I remember asking myself hey wait a minute – why am I still in Latvia again?
Because here I am, in Riga (a place I’d only recently discovered even existed), with a couple changes of clothes and no plan.
Wasn’t this what I wanted?
Did I think this through?
Nope. Then again… that’s really no surprise, is it.. (shut up)
But what this random last minute decision offered me was the freedom to do whatever I wanted to do in this city in which I knew nothing about. So, I went exploring. I went exploring like it was my job. I explored the dark, cold, desolate and rainy streets of Latvia in the winter. I stumbled on the most amazing remembrance ceremony I’ve ever seen. And when I was done, I went to the hostel common room and started googling the shit out of Eastern Europe. Because apparently this is where I am.
Lithuania borders Latvia, I discover.
I’ve never been to Lithuania.
Shall we go to Lithuania?
A grand idea!
As luck would have it, after several days alone in Latvia, I came across three other travelers in the same hostel (The Naughty Squirrel, for those of you looking for a fun place to stay in the Old Town) who were heading to Lithuania. Done, I thought. I’ll go with them. A few clicks on the internet machine, and I was booked, on a one-way-bus-ticket, with a couple of strangers, to a country I knew nothing about.
A few more clicks of the internet machine later, and I found a girl on couchsurfing.com who was offering her home as a crash-pad for homeless travelers like myself. Perfect, I thought, should I ask if these other strangers I’m traveling with can stay with me at this stranger’s house in this strange country? I asked, and it was okay, and that’s how Julien and I shared our first air-mattressed night together. In Lithuania.
So 4 hours and 40 minutes later and the bus transported us from Riga to the dignified, European Capital of Culture (together with Linz, Austria) – the majestic city of Vilnius. Now what I didn’t know then is that, because of its Jewish influence until the 20th century, Napoleon named it the “Jerusalem of the North” as he was passing through in 1812. It was declared a UNESCO World Heritage site in 1994. Cool eh?
It wasn’t long after arriving in Vilnius that the three of us were dressed in our finest backpack attire and out exploring all that Lithuanian nightlife had to offer. Armed with Vilnius’ finest “irish whisky” beers (syrup of the cream of the Irish sitting in the bottom of your lager, give’r a good stir and you’re in the company of something uniquely delicious), and a local who knew where to go and what to do, we partied til the wee hours of the morning. We met some other couchsurfers, exchanged contact info, and from the dancing ache in my legs and the high ceilings of Raminta’s old soviet style apartment that I woke to the next morning, I can only assume that we managed to stumble home at some point.
Lithuanian people are gorgeous. Perhaps the most gorgeous people on the planet. Tall, fit (I don’t think I saw a single overweight Lithuanian), fluent in English (…and Lithuanian, and Russian, and usually one or two other languages too), and ferociously friendly once you’ve broken through the stony facade. Eastern European stereotype to a tee. Wow.
I officially need more Lithuanians in my life.
Great times. You have the funnest life going. How do you manage to always look so good…well dressed and hair looking perfect living out of a backpack and on the go?
Such good times! And thanks for the compliment… though I am going to have to disagree with you! I did manage to shower before we went out that night… maybe that has something to do with it? Ha ha. I don’t know. The shirt is a tiny lace thing that scrunches into a ball smaller than my fist, so it’s a backpack staple for sure. :)
I actually want to know the same thing as Darren! (Seriously) I’m about to head off (again) – probably 6ish months this time and through a few different climates. What do you pack so you can go out and look so put together? I always end up looking a bit bedraggled – no GHD etc on the road – and in jeans!
Haha. I always look bedraggled too – especially when showers are sparse and you travel through different climates like you’re about to do! Seriously… it’s not easy. I went from the high rainy-season humidity of Southeast Asia to the dry, frigid air of Siberia… all with one backpack. So I totally get where you’re coming from! For hair I carry two things with me: a mini travel-sized blowdryer that fits into a ziplock sandwich bag.. and bobby pins. Lots of bobby pins.
As for clothes… I’m all about layering. I keep a couple tanks, a t-shirt that’s good for activities (think sports), and a couple shirts that are thin/scrunchable/lace that I can wear over said tank-tops if I want to dress them up/not look super casual. I also carry a few nice pieces of jewelry because they don’t take up space and they dress things up nicely. Add a basic dress, a skirt that’s easily dressed up or down and a pair of jeans… voila! I actually love having little choice in the wardrobe department… and it’s not like you’re seeing the same people every day anyway, so who cares!
So where are you heading off to this time?? :)
I admire your life. It is been long since I took adventure travels and I am hoping to embark on them soon. You look great.
Really? Thanks Kim :)
I have got plans to visit Lithuania sometime before this year ends. I hope I’ll have much fun like you did.
Thanks Maxin. You’ll love it :)
Wow! I wish I had your moxie. I might have to pack up and head out next summer! Lithuania looks awesome but I freeze easily. :) BTW, I’m drooling over that fried bread with cheese.
Hey thanks Taylor! And for the record, I think you should! Lithuania is incredible and that fried bread is more addictive than you could ever imagine – a few bites and you’ll warm right up from the bitter cold! :)
Oh, I just saw your reply! I am in SE Asia (again!) Have just been to Myanmar and on my way to India, before China and the Koreas, then Japan, and the somewhere in Eastern Europe (yet to be planned). A bit backwards I know, but have a few people to meet in various places.
Thanks heaps for the tips – SE Asia to a European winter in one pack is tough! Will you be anywhere near where I am at any stage over the next three/four months? I have no travel friends in China or in Europe!
Oh, sounds like a great plan!! I’m incredibly jealous. Looks like I’m stuck in Canada for a few more months (I shouldn’t complain – this country is incredible too, and I’m seeing much more than I ever did growing up, so YAY) – but it’s still no backpack travel! Unfortunately I don’t think I’ll be anywhere near you in the next few months…… but maybe somewhere down the road! Who knows where either of us will end up :) Happy adventuring!!!
Wow have to admit with all the traveling I’ve done I’ve never considered traveling to Lithuania until now. Would have to travel there in the warmer months though :)
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